Human relationships should unlock trauma

 We humans need family to support our well being. This should be safe to our self. We should not need a therapists but somebody who cares and is interested also in our psyche. Traumas unlock as we have a deep conversation. We remember our childhood and even cry. This life long journey needs people who know our self even deeply. Love care safety comfort support listening and talking are the foundation of Healthy relationships. Ofcourse all start with totally shallow way as we people slowly become interested in each others. Not all is ofcourse deep they are the rare moments. But these moments protects our selfs from therapists . If we do not have this we can find substitute from therapy . Ofcourse therapy should not protect ourselfs from real relationships but to support it also. Sure we can have shallow relationships and use therapy. How ever way you like it.