If you are lucky and treated good have your own space you can do inner growth with your experiences in the world. Your self grow through things in your self as you grow matured , like being happy , being Angry, being sad and having emotions , being for your self , feeling there is to you somekind of god, being better than others going through such illusions , finding other Person , getting real, creating your own matured opinion in the society from your self , being actually  for your matured opinion not just for your self and honey but also others, then you might experience joy of succeed with your self with been through a lot of effort and being ok self and joy of being seen as kind of ready, then growing into you work and family life. Just remember a little deeper people might have been through a lot of pain and inner work and salvated from a lot of danger. If you your self grow matured you might need somebody to know you or you dont resonate with lots of different kind of...