Humans are not only good or only beautyful

 If nobody love our self or at least like our self we might in trauma create a beautyful being. If we reject our shadow side or our sides we create only good being. We need somebody to be interested in our psyche with our self in bed talk in relaxation to unlock traumas. In other words sivilized need a marriage in life . In mariage our true nature is seen and we also fight and show our anger grow and evolve. Our good side keep it together and human cabable to real love is understood. We really need to be seen and our sins are to our self that way known. We dont create some only beautyful or only good being in marriage  but have Sense of reality. Even salvated one might have serious level of good being we need to know also our anger our pain our vanity and maybe some are cabable to grow into god of proper level and to care. Ok enough is how ever the reality of our self in lifes challenges. To stay connected to emotions and angers is important in life.