Narcissism

 We have in Finland catastrophe from npd, narcissistic personality disorder to human own life, sexuality , freedom in other words to human healthy narcissism.  Some spiritual schools promote no narcissism such as Christians and they are famous to suppress and repress our own power. Like our self don’t evolve to care , but all glory is given to god. According to atheist school of life our self our self owns our life and our healthy narcissism is natural to our selfs. Sick narcissism really ruin healthy narcissism and that ruin our own lifes. Selfishness is our inner life and subject reality what we should protect by narcissism.  To others we should learn at the same time non self centered behaviour and cabability to love. Children teach to most adults non self centered life. Also marriage give our self possibility to care, be there and to develop unselfish behaviour . At the same time we have obligation to be guided to narcissism , to know our self, to stand for our selfs and to care about our selfs. Some don’t understand social life that include admiring , it’s usually just some artistical personality types . We all admire super stars , musicians and famous people. If they don’t have npd they have succeed very well in their healthy narcissism. Many like in their marriage some admiring through love and sexuality. That is part of psychology of our selfs. How ever because lack of love many are blind that they have any narcissism at all and just make people think lowly of their own narcissism . Freud guided people to narcissism .