Why people dont just love each other

 Hippies believe in love. They become even enough similar so they can love each others. Love how ever is to them often just hedoism so they dont grow so much into salvated to love. That kind of love just give them a lot also. Humans learn egotism and to close them selfs from dangerous love from out side. Their own hearts often evolve to love their family. They them self love as subjects so That also protects from dangerous love as illusion from outside. People don’t want who ever to love them selfs. They are even insane against it . They do think they even start to look like them or to be like them. They do not wanna be like them. Some are healthy and allow there is love. Even they are selective who they accept as them selfs. They relate to some people with the same world view and allow there is love. Love creates worlds from such people and it comes dangerous love from outside to some people. Love has a will and a voice and it finds and looks for people. People become just victims of love. Our own hearts should find some hammers in some people so we would stay also good that way. Some stay all life as objection that eats love from outside. They never find their subject to love. In relationship do we just find how we our self love , do we also find how somebody love our selfs . Maybe that is never so interesting to let love in. Maybe that’s hippie propaganda.  In sickness we might like it that somebody heal our self with love.