Does a family destroy our lifes

 We have no rights to TaKe a family and destroy their lifes. If we meet somebody for to know them we must just talk about it what we want in life and make sure other dont desteoy that life but built it with our selfs. We cant have unrealistical fantacy from owning class. We must know what it is. Some can risk and go with unrealism and see what happenes. That dont promise anything. To really run full responsibility takes a lot. Both must do it. And have what it takes. Sure we live and learn and dont know everything. Many look for somebody to rent work and run low responsibility. Or just welfare and then some work with some area like garden Books and writing music voluntary work or free arts from edjucated on area. Thats low lifes and takes also level. Do fush and fight but talk and to share. To defend each other might be needed. Some level demands in self care , understanding , taking insanity and wanting more understanding might be needed. Totally true family must communicate to avoid they kill each other from low life level. All must be quite clear all the time.