Social life assuming shared reality

 We might talk to people and show our selfs and we assume such things as they dont have rights to murder anybody or come on others area as to abuse but just in communication disagree and debate. We assume they know what rhere is as real like our self but have different life experience and life. Some assume basic humanity and tolerance to things. This our self really consists also of assuming of whats real . Then if we know them Its not anymore what we assumed and we reject them as a theath to our selfs. We dont wanna change our selfs and what ever grow . If we have to stay to assume things as our social self and dont anymore assume like in youth others think we are insane and have no reality. Others betray and dont bring us anything real from them selfs socially but place them selfs above and talk from some reality of them selfs. We dont wanna stay insane isolated from what to our selfs reality. Thats not any disease or depression to not to have our selfs reality. We dont Many from things have powers to our selfs reality in life. Thats to live partly in illusion. Thats not disease. We need maybe non abusive Person for therapy and to whats our self posible from reality. Even such shared reality whats to our self posible is a personal war in life , non has absolution right over others powers.