Fear of being understood

 Our self as much as don’t want to be misunderstood don’t want also to be understood. That’s the private area in life only to our selfs to understand or we don’t have any self. We are the only one who understands our selfs. Nothing how ever as nice than to experience some sharing private area with a trusted one who don’t have low behaviour or idiotism around what is self and insanity and things to our selfs. Also if we would be understood we might be created from out side as that person by many people and lose it and become that person. Also our unconscious scares our selfs and we don’t want others to know our selfs before we do. We don’t wanna be misunderstood or understood. We must be somehow just understood. It’s not nice to end it there , our selfs to be done , to be understood.  How we are understood from our selfs can be totally unbearable to our selfs as understood beings from something in others selfs and world views.