Helping mother

 If we get unwell our mother might come to our lifes in a wrong way as adults. As adults we cant anymore stand our mother helps our selfs. If she does Its just her self and agenda in caring war for her self. We go down in our independence maturity caring war line and our selfs becomes some child. If we dont have some level mother who dont want to destroy our self we might have to in reality associate with our mothers. Its normal abuse of our line and power and in reality we need a new family and a little power to care of our mothers our self. If we dont have a family our childhood family really is not anymore our family. Our mothers  might not like it we are unwell and they have to for them selfs care. We might get psychologically ill from lack of taken as an adult in reality such mothering crash our adult salvation. Unfortunately we have to watch out we are psychologically adult to all in all situations after 18 years for our selfs. We must be our selfs which suit to our selfs to somebody and as that self care back about our mothers. If we must be some child food to our mother or she dont even care we dont unfortunately anymore have a mother. We must be independent or our mother  destroy our path to our selfs.