Others are not objects

 It might be hard to remember that other people are often not in their lifes and to them something as we meet them. Others might  be unreal and give some fraqment in a way of them selfs to our selfs. We know some objects and people who are just to our selfs nothing. If a Person dont have charismatic amazing self to show they still might have some inner life Past future dreams hopes secreds abilities enemies knowledge experience interests and more even we know only some shallow self that show us much nothing. People are sometimes such real people they exists with people and places from different intellect and memory of them selfs and it takes protection to dig deeper a being. They dont still have a personality disorder even they  exist from different selfs that remember each orhers. People are sometimes objects only to them selfs in a way. They have not became a subject but stayed as an object. These objects how ever are not also objects. To TaKe somebody as object means your consciousnes talks fundamentally only to that Person you see in your understanding in your communication. You dont calculate at all who could other be , Its just that object and that Person. If you get it they have privacy self your consciousnes gets they are not objects.