Selfishness

 Many people are fundamentally so self centered they dont have such self they can be unselfish to people. They feel horrible judgements to be unselfish so others would accept them selfs. We must have some soul power to be unselfish to others. Others must allow it and benefit. We must respect a line. We must collect a lot own self to self and powers to have anything for others. Others might not like our services. In family life people behave from non self centered self to others. Without family singels must be selfish. Some like it some dont. Many are seriously unsalvated if no family to who be for from them selfs who allow their help. We dont Many have anything for the poor and old to help the people in need in life to be understood from our souls and unselfisnes. Inner poverty is not unselfishness   and inner wealth some selfisness.  Its not nice Healthy narcissism is unsalvated by some people as selfisness. All need some people for it they are not some dickheads if they are for them selfs. Many who think they are unselfish actually serve people without giving other a right to exists at all. Just them self and their no selfisnes. If you dont have power to allow you exist and then other you dont but put others down. It sometimes just nice to people in situations but fundamentally such is not so Healthy. Its a need to psychologically perfect to allow self put own needs away consider other let self and other exist and connect and help other Person. Many belong to ego isolation such way they dont help around. Non should care if somebody is selfish people do even nasty to others  that makes selfish a saint all the time.