The consciousness getting basic things ?

 How a child evolve into getting even words and behaviour them selfs? There is just our selfs in reality and others are there is reality. Reality morality all evolve in our selfs. To care to love to consider others and not to lose connection to our selfs. To respect our selfs and be a slave to self respects is one basic thing. We can meet somebody who has like us same things understood as real but who’s inner life and reality is totally different what there is. We might meet totally different world view basic things are different. We might in missing people miss other with sane kind of inner reality. It’s basic thing we understand we don’t have in other that missed person with the same sense of reality. By only family we might become like each other’s in inner and outer reality. Even then we have our own selfs that are different kind.