What’s sexuality ?

 Sexuality means in teens arise a fantasies and if you live them and at least partly allow your self you get rid of fantasy and find reality of sexuality. You might become sexually matured and want intimacy and emotions and connections and to make some love. That’s normal in eighteen you might be ready. Then star the war what is sexuality. It’s your own life force and power and maturity and anybody can experience anything immatured and failures in love life. It’s not to be some already ready object for sexuality it’s just to be enough real for real sexuality and to grow more and make something sexy with powers in life.   We are gamed not to succeed. But we should take good care of our powers and sexual to our selfs. Animals just do it a little but many humans do it a life purpose and essence of life. To succeed we should watch out our maturity not to get into our immaturity in our selfs. Some mess around with their powers in immaturity some calm in safety with some maturity. Attraction is often some benefits and emotions and we can really ruin our lifes by failed interests . We don’t have real interests actually as adults if we don’t know the person and they have any interest. We don’t in life drown to sexual interests but some people who didn’t work through their fantasies and don’t admit them selfs didn’t then find the reality of sexuality and might ruin it all for others with their fantasy illusion psychology. We have no rights to analyse others as sexually perversions etc sexuality is private.  Sexuality might be physicality and part of psychological Id or is it just mode for some love ?