Having issues with our self

 Only if a goal is to become deep matured being there might be growth to do. A shallow can be a Walking issue with them self as them self from deeper perspective. Deeper might have also some traumas to open in them selfs and issues with disparaging others in the psyche. To pass to line self from others forgive people stay in true about our selfs takes it that we are not some gamed betrayed bothered being , such way we have serious issue with low behaviour to our selfs. If we are not at all valued but taken as objections or issue people from depths we just have an issue to live with involved with others. Its all about finding to us suitable people who mean us well and use us in fair way that we can grow to know what issues we then might develop with others. Do we have. To change for others or do we have any air any right to our selfs and how that self goes together with others self. If we have wholenes on psyche level we dont hate from our issue with our self for example we dont so much care if self care and hate  somebody that is actually a lesson Its from our lack of self care. We are just too corrupted selfs to blame our selfs from issues. We might Many have an issue that we seriously like somebodys outer beauty . Its called attachment to beauty. That might bother our psyche our hearts and our values and our self respect. We have to process and understand what we in our selfs mean by valuing outer beauty. Do we really wanna Enjoy as a partner some beautyful Person on the looks ? Do we want both some level and looks. Do we like it no outer beauty so much ? We must know our selfs. To unlock issues is to know our selfs. Some psychologies process all the time to know our selfs.