Not to compete and be unselfishnes

 We humans are edjucated by our mothers not to compete and be unselfisnes. And by our father we must ofcourse make a living and such is unfortunately to compete. In reality we must be a mother who dont compete and father makes a living and compete . The fact that we get any Job we must have something some  perfection and power and we must win people to actually be taken as trust worthy and ok being for the Job. Its to built level and it can be done in good spirits understanding and supporting each others and even sacrify to give somebody a Job and TaKe other Job. As we built respect to. Position to get a Job we should have a Healthy ego independence not egotism foundation from lower than our selfs but a Healthy ego sinse a childhood family . Society money is hiearche and hiearche is to compete. If you know rhe world is in terrible competition the cruelest thing to do to a living being is to demand unselfishnes to others and no narcissism and not to compete  cause others might in dirty way compete. Nothing wrong with a Healthy competition. Many betray Healthy competition . Heart and unselfishnes is voluntary or Its violence not the heart. Unselfisnes it self is a Healthy heart and such grow matured heart in a Healthy unselfishnes homes with support. If somebody show some Healthy narcissism Its because they dont have a village where they are taken as a whole ok people from their value content and real in family and the society.  All must built some Healthy narcissism against others. Its our own lifes.