Seeing things

 “We don’t see things as they are we see things as we are. “ Anais Nin  

Many things we think exist may not like that. Our eyes might be original and we might see many things as ugly even just beautyful things. We might see beauty even just ugly thing. It’s from our selfs . We have a right to our selfs . We meet somebody but do we just meet what’s to our selfs understandable in our selfs. What’s to know somebody else than our self ? Their traumas and their fears hates and things ? We get only things in others if we get them in our selfs. If we get nothing in our selfs we don’t actually meet anybody real ?