Why is it forbidden to be narcissism and work for our self ?

 If we understand correctly we have something real and we in names of our self find our work and love even others our near by for our selfs and Its just also real we also love them self to rejoice from their happynes and success. We from self centered interest find something real and fair enough from our self centered interest and our naturally good. How ever spiritually to be totally unconscious of reality of life and serving in a way also our life we must understand we are part of life that is for life. Life religion in our selfs point to will to live and like life. We in names of loving life and our self and who we love experience this life. Our fundamental value dont end to our correct understanding that we work for our self to have anything real. We also work for some others people like our self and do things in names of how grand is life. Things dont end and begin from our selfs.