Embarrassing others or self ?

 If you never had self development heart phrase judged by your mother to find not embarrassing self for real you might look for your mother and embarrasse and embarrasse people to be your self highest embarrassing person anybody can think of to your mother. Adults compete and all need from what they are not embarrssing allies snd family snd own ancle. Some wanna do only to them selfs embarrassing things to survive. It’s personal choices do we choose embarrassing things or not. Many can’t make to money which means not embarrassing  in our selfs. People how ever have often something unembarrsssing to money world but that needs allies and friends . Inner life as not embarrsssung to our selfs is private and if somebody would have super power to reAd thoughts to call them embarrassing they woyld not be anything not embarrsssing but usually just Sex fantacy etc. Which are embarrassing. Only if people make some money they mean they sre not from it embarrassing. Our selfs and abilities and things are only not embarrassing to our selfs sometimes usually we don’t have an opinion . The having a heart classic is to be able to love our wholeness of embarrassing self as our self also and that way feel for people experiencing something embarrassing . Egotism look for not embarrassing self to our self the heart look for embarrassing self as our self. That’s to grow more matured . We don’t have to , we can like our level . In youth and growth before perfect matured being we are often to our selfs embarrsssing , that means we are cabable just to also family lifes and kids. We don’t look for the worlds opinion of our selfs.