Whats reality ?

 Is a child responsible of Its own reality ? Parents deside. School and reality desides. Reality means things that happen that are kot in our command command our selfs in reality. Anybody can do to us anything. But yes Its often connected to also who our self is and what she or he does and is. As older the outer world goes in and makes ill and creates evil reality to our selfs. We something deside and something not. We maybe know we are often our selfs responsoble if what happenes , we cant so much control or know even that our self that deside. We have reality center to know we have reality and  we have lao self away from realitys outer realitys commands demands and things. We co operate with reality. If some force Mess woth our Sense of reality within we dont survive creating it all , all our reality. Thats because outer reality dont let us be that way. Non wanna be some artist that creates her or his own experience alone as some kind of god that everything deside on Its own. Even Thats kind of real about running own life that we deside our selfs. No we cant even then be all dictators that everything commands in the society and everything creates. We are at the mercy of things in the society that we can unite to some powers that we feel are our selfs and command and serve them and feel we create by faithful to them our reality. Freedom to run our lifes that it all comes from our selfs is some peoples experience in psychosis and other disorders to create it all. Thats to have no shared reality but just our power to what we have power for to experience from power our reality.  Its ok to create own reality from liking own power and working for it. If no crimes to people for our selfs. Ego creates reality is some peoples experience from the identity to command commands everything. Self aware that our some self what ever it is always experience from there thst self some maybe call that self aware running own life and some type of freedom from shared reality. Such disease can happen to self that it stats to experience from self that self. Iho my god i am god , all that happen is from my self. There are Many such diseases that self experience it self. Is outside then in command totally of that self ? To have some type of love heart mentality psyche body survival and more cant posible experience it self but have reality center. We are such complicated systems we need to have  Sense of reality.  Our system dont have tiny self rhat out side commands totally to experience it self.  We can believe into things and have reality that we just believe or really go to these things we believe into. Losing reality and believable to things can happen life is that cruel. Powerful might go to own power and believe into it. There can be found things. Path of life is to TaKe ti our hands our system command it to respect a lot in it also reality also heart also mentality creativity and maybe experience it together not appart . Who boss who in our selfs? Does reality command it all ?