Winning others as our selfs

 If we our self salvate a little to such self after childhood we don’t stop our hearts somehow or turn hars but continue our ability to find connect share and care of others but yes often from point of our own interests to some fair enough connection to others from also the heart we might have ability to recover from what happens in life and turn it to our not victory but existentialist continuing . We might be streanghtenung our selfs and no we don’t battle   others to win or to lose but don’t if that care. In reality handlening that we do things we think is right and our right and obligations and interests we might benefit from worse than others that others that somewhere also exist that in reality don’t our selfs command or own or are not connected but also exist just co exist so they don’t mind benefit or not benefit from our selfs. Winning and losing are not our interests but some type of faithful to our own lifes . Does stringer win does weaker win , it does not matter both can be stronger and exist. Females think soft win hard and have it also there that hard don’t always win in them the soft. Doing for such might streanghten the heart and we also that way survive. If we just others win and winner takes it all yes it’s posible it’s only way often tto survive with others if they are totally insane that somebody is strong person and give you eternally credit from such choice you make. Soon you make cash survive and maybe save your life with kids and family and valance your self. Such drive might be battled games down also and winners might not have so to speak own brains and salvation from others it might be some immatured disorder that people then benefit from sexiness beauty money positions powers and levels but yes it might lead to serious issues with such selfs have a heart for their victory to grow matured money victory that what they say is that immatured ways are not but to drown the function of things to produce illusions to others of contents that are for somebody’s victory which is to others what it is of course not illusions but the reality of such world might be psychologically too isolated to understand anything what it is in it other than own sweet victory which by it self please a human heart. The other way to exist from fair enough ways and to something adult victory and that’s kind of own victory in money should not get abused by the victory paths for immatured selfs partying for them selfs. The surrounding might really analyse many immatured people and their victories to benefit from just because some body with idiot t shirt is then. Creating undeesranding around  t shirt annoy them selfs that they don’t want such level to human race that wear that colour t shirt so , the issues with people who need at least one political friend to survive with others compared to those who battle for their own victory with unfortunately understanding with others based on values of self victory then something … is true that anybody must work fit self victiry , it’s just a value game also and some that pass by by glorifying the immatured values and personal victories to battle for them selfs in understanding . The shallow and their understanding can lead to horror real psychopsthic horror I. The collective so it’s called to misunderstand how growth goes.