Christians believe in wrong and right self love

 According to Christian discipline self can be narcissist and just want for self things and cherish our selfs and give self everything by getting to self everything by living in evil way our selfs . Thats in a way immatured taker only with the syrroundings. That stlfvid seriously better and deserve deeds to work that self gets this and that . Its wrong self love and  wrong narcissism that admire our selfs and think highly of our self. Dies such then have also psyche that then hate also that self ? Is there such Person posible with the surroundings ? Does others then let somebody be that way ? Self cant give others what self dont even have. We might have to be s narcissism if we nothing have but illusion of our selfs. That cant give then anything … do we just have to little but help some people care and share are we then not evil narcissism ? Christians believe Its that god loves you then yiu are not evil narcissism . Why would people go totally insane that god loves them and wanna give them everything ? If accirding to psychiatry Person has narcissism . How to handle it is personal . We can be an ass whole to others or evil it dont then work out better with others. Maybe they dont want woth us to experience some kind of trade ? To surrender to jesus or higher powers , do they Lead us to care in names of jesus . Is human just evil narcissism that god commands to love talk care help and work? If Person work hard why would he or she be evil narcissism ? Some say a Person hates them selfs and work hard to revenge our selfs. That self is not good enough to our self. These are psychological things who is that self ? What are these things. Do we still command inner mither who judge our selfs ? Why we dont grow matured our selfs and whole ?